5 Reasons Why She's Not Winning




1. She's too young... If she's not achieving those big state or national titles, she could very well be performing at her very personal best, but may be "out-performed" by older girls in her division. There's a huge developmental gap between age 4 and age 7, yet, pageants may have them competing in the same age division, which puts older girls at a huge advantage. Girls may peak at different stages, or ebb and flow into their sweet spots.  Age can be a major factor throughout her pageant journey.


2. Low Self Esteem...Older contestants will tend to have a variety of personal issues ignited by puberty, society's unrealistic standards of beauty, or personal hardships. It takes a super confident contestant to fight through these challenges to win.

Ishta showing a confident smile before her competition


3. Too focused on "winning"...because when she doesn't win, her self confidence plummets, sending her through a downward spiral of "I'm not good enough" thoughts. These confidence killers are never good anecdotes for success. Instead, contestants should care about community involvement and serving others. Those are the real winners.



4. Inadequate Preparation...The rule of thumb is six months to one year of pageant preparation. This includes wardrobe selection, speech-writing, coaching, financing, and practice, practice, practice. There is a direct correlation between a well prepared contestant and winning. You can always tell a well prepared contestant by how amazing she looks and sounds on stage.

Jada confidently delivering her personal introduction at her state pageant


5. She doesn't want to win...and the mom is vicariously living through her daughter's pageant journey. Successful contestants are only successful when they are passionate about their goals and dreams.


Overall, the road to success is different for each contestant. The outcome depends on so many different variables, many of which you have little control over.  But consistency is key! When girls are fully committed to their goals and never give up, the outcome is always a win.



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